What to do, what to do
May. 21st, 2008 11:13 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
nova_mythI should be in bed and asleep right now, I got to get up freaking early to take my car in to get checked over and an oil change. Instead right when I was about to sign off for the night a friend Instant messages me it didn't end well.
I've known this friend since high school, thats going back almost 5 years. He's moping over girl troubles and he's just not getting out of it. He's to the point he's aggravated, shutting people out. Wondering "why bother with friends" when all the girls who he tries to date, and sorta date, but never actually become a 'real' girlfriend just want to be friends. But he's starting to shut people out, and it worries me. I can't force my way in, I really have no idea what he can do with the situation from the last girl.
But it worries me, he's my friend. I'm not like most girls, I'm not a social person (but I'm not a closet emo like my house-mate) but I'm not a reculse either. I know most girls when they say, "Just friends." They're really just putting a gentle let down as possible. With this girl I have no idea if thats it or if she really does care for him as a friend but not anything else. But he won't accept it like that, its black and white as far as he is concerned but at the same time...
I just don't know. As of right now, no words of support or anything is of any good. Nothing is right things to say; Or its not what he wants to hear. Either way I have nothing to offer any more unless something changes. He's on his own emotionally and mentally, even though there are people who try to be supportive its something he must shift through and decide.
But he his my friend, so I do worry.
I've known this friend since high school, thats going back almost 5 years. He's moping over girl troubles and he's just not getting out of it. He's to the point he's aggravated, shutting people out. Wondering "why bother with friends" when all the girls who he tries to date, and sorta date, but never actually become a 'real' girlfriend just want to be friends. But he's starting to shut people out, and it worries me. I can't force my way in, I really have no idea what he can do with the situation from the last girl.
But it worries me, he's my friend. I'm not like most girls, I'm not a social person (but I'm not a closet emo like my house-mate) but I'm not a reculse either. I know most girls when they say, "Just friends." They're really just putting a gentle let down as possible. With this girl I have no idea if thats it or if she really does care for him as a friend but not anything else. But he won't accept it like that, its black and white as far as he is concerned but at the same time...
I just don't know. As of right now, no words of support or anything is of any good. Nothing is right things to say; Or its not what he wants to hear. Either way I have nothing to offer any more unless something changes. He's on his own emotionally and mentally, even though there are people who try to be supportive its something he must shift through and decide.
But he his my friend, so I do worry.
